Hi everybody. My name is Wylie, and I am a gorgeous 8 year old boy who has had some sad life experiences. I am looking forward to my next chapter with a person willing to give me the chance at love that I believe I deserve. Anyone who has lived through a rough divorce will relate to my story and understand some of the emotions I am going through.
I don't remember very much about my early life, but I know I was brought to Max Fund as a young cat. At that time, I was really cuddly, and as a result, I found what I thought was my forever home. I was living a pretty good life for the seven years I was there. It was awesome. Yes, my human wasn't around all the time, but he provided me with all that I thought I needed: a place to live, food, water, a litterbox, and toys; however, I realized that I wanted more and snuck out of the house sometimes, which was very scary and dangerous. I was brave, but I experienced some bad things out there on the streets that traumatized me a bit. Because of my frequent escapes, and his work-travel schedule, my human dad decided to return me to Max Fund.
To say that the transition has been rough is a huge understatement. I will admit that I have not been my best self upon my return, but please see things from my point-of-view: I was rejected by the person I thought was my forever human. I thought being together for seven years meant that we would be together forever, but I guess he felt that seven-year itch, so we went through the split. He got the house, and I got the cat carrier and a ride back to the shelter. Sorry, I know that sounds harsh, but I have been going through all the feelings: fear, anger, and sadness. I know he probably had good reasons for returning me, but that doesn't change my feelings of complete abandonment.
I know I am not being my best self right now, but I just have to work through some things and rediscover that people can be nice and patient. I currently like being in a little hidey where no one can sneak up on me. If you hang out in my room, I might initially hiss or growl, but if sit on the floor and slowly blink at me, sing to me, and/or talk to me, I know that I am safe and will give you some nice slow blinks to let you know. I may even fall asleep, which shows you that I am letting my guard down. I also like videos of birds and squirrels, which make me feel like I am out in nature again. Please come and meet me, and, if you are patient and loving, I will show you that I can be the same and more.
